Musings of a Marfan Mom

October 24, 2010
by marfmom
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Giveaway: Motherlove Herbal Company

* This review was originally posted on Oct. 12th. Since then I have been invited to host a giveaway, so I’m reprinting the review. Continue reading for giveaway information!

While I’m not someone who insists on organic all (or even most) of the time, I am trying to be more conscious of what goes in and on my son’s body. When it’s reasonable, we’re slowly adding in more natural products, like cloth diapers, homemade baby food, and trying out a CSA. So, when Motherlove Herbal Company contacted me about reviewing a couple of products I was eager to!

Started by a professional herbalist, Motherlove began two decades ago, making it the oldest truly-safe such company. They “follow the Good Manufacturing Practices (GMP) set forth by the AHPA and the FDA” and the “herbal supplements are made in an FDA registered, GMP certified facility.” None of their products are tested on animals and they use wind credits and recycled materials. For more information on their green manufacturing click here.

I also love Motherlove’s resource link. There you can get information on which herbs you should avoid during pregnancy/which can help with various pregnancy-induced maladies, how to increase your breast milk supply, recommendations for various types of books, studies about breastfeeding, and more. Their blog contains even more information about pregnancy, birth, and breastfeeding. After reading all of this I could tell that Motherlove is a company who truly cares about their customers, making them the type of company I’d be pleased to partner with.

They sent me two products to try out: their diaper rash & thrush ointment and their pregnant belly salve.

The Menininho has been cursed with super sensitive skin. He has battled diaper rashes almost since birth and Mark and I are constantly trying out new ways to manage them. The diaper rash ointment came just as M. had another rash outbreak: perfect timing! A little bit of this ointment goes a ways: at this rate a 1 ounce jar should last us about a month, using it at every diaper change, every day. It took about a week for the rash to clear up. But, unlike with some other creams and ointments we’ve tried, the rash didn’t get worse (read: begin to bleed) once we started the Motherlove ointment. As long as we used it consistently, the rash stayed at bay. A couple of days ago I stopped using it as an experiment and the rash came back in full force within 24 hours. So, it’s time to go back to using the ointment!

I can not say enough good things about the pregnant belly salve. My skin has itched a lot with pregnancy – until it has bled, actually. When I was pregnant with M. I tried a few different creams and ointments. Some smelled so bad that Mark didn’t want to be around me. Others just plain didn’t work. The one I eventually used worked ok but left my skin sticky for a long time after I’d apply it. The belly salve has a strong lavender smell…not so much that it’s overpowering, but enough that it was kind of calming and I’m debating bringing some when I go into labor, just to smell. The base for the product is beeswax so it appears sticky at first, but once I rubbed it in, I wasn’t left feeling like I’d been dipped in vaseline and my clothes didn’t stick to my belly. Best of all though? The itching stopped within 30 seconds of me applying the salve! It worked so well I even applied it to my eczema, with good results there too. I’ve applied it every night before bed and sometimes during the day time as well.

Motherlove Herbal Company definitely has a new fan in me! I encourage you to check them out. You can find them via their website, their blog, their Twitter page, or, of course, Facebook.

One lucky reader will get their choice of the diaper rash & thrush ointment OR the pregnancy belly salve!

Mandatory Entry:
Visit Motherlove’s website & leave a comment here with one other product that you like.

Optional entries:
1) Follow Motherlove on Twitter AND tweet about this giveaway. It’s worth 1 entry per day. Make sure to leave a link to the tweet as a comment. You can use: “Enter to win @motherloveherb’s organic belly salve or diaper rash ointment! #Giveaway open thru Oct. 31! http://bit.ly/bLV8eN”
2) Go to the Motherlove blog and leave me a comment with one thing you learned from there.

Make sure that you leave a SEPARATE comment for each entry! The mandatory must be done FIRST for any other entries to count. I’ll be choosing a winner via a random number generator.

Giveaway is open to US residents only. It ends Sun. Oct 31st at 11:59 pm. Winner will be emailed and announced on the blog Nov. 1st. Winner will have 48 hours to respond or a new winner will be chosen.

* Motherlove Herbal Company provided me with 2 products to review free of charge, and an additional product for the giveaway winner. All opinions expressed in this review are my own.

October 21, 2010
by marfmom
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It’s been awhile, but today I’m writing as part of Mama Kat’s Writers’ Workshop. I’ve chosen prompt #1: In what way were you labeled as a child and how did it affect you?

I was diagnosed with Marfan when I was 8 years old. The cardiologist painted a grim enough picture and provided such little take home information that my parents were understandably quite frightened. The natural consequence of this was that they became overprotective.

From that time on, I was labeled as the weak kid, the beanpole, the one to be careful around. The teachers, I’m sure, thought they were doing me a favor with their speeches. One had kids in the class list ways they could treat me well. Another cautioned to my fellow students that if I fell down the stairs, I’d get really hurt.

Everywhere I turned, this message of being fragile was reinforced. And kids? Some kids can sniff out weakness a mile away. I was bullied for years: taunts, threats, and physically being pushed around (yes, even into a trashcan). I wasn’t sure what to do. Part of me retreated into my studies, part of me was depressed, and part of me was angry. I reacted by trying to pretend like there was nothing wrong with me. Since those with authority over me wouldn’t let me do the kind of tasks that were safe for me to do, I began to engage in activities that definitely were not safe for me: carrying heavy containers, playing dodgeball, running till I couldn’t catch my breath.

It took me a long while to see myself as strong and capable. The comments from the teachers, the bullying from the students…they forever affected who I am. It’s not who I am anymore, this weak, passive person, but the memories will never leave me.

So parents: please be very conscious of how you label your children with special needs/chronic illness. This doesn’t mean you ignore their limitations or push them to disregard their restrictions, but that you allow THEM to define how their illness defines them. Make sure your children’s teachers, friends, and extended family are focusing on what they do well instead of any negative that their illness brings.

These days, I’ve proudly labeled myself a Marf. Instead of meaning one who is weak and fragile though, it stands for one who is strong, creative, and able to go with the flow.

October 20, 2010
by marfmom
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Pumpkin Patch 2010

I have a deep love of pumpkin patches. This year we had the opportunity to go with our local playgroup. I figured we’d be able to get a nice Christmas picture of the 3.5 of us and I spent over an hour fretting over what we’d wear. Of course, I forgot about the 20 month old having a mind of his own!

While we never did get a family picture, we did some good shots of the Menininho.