Musings of a Marfan Mom

February 23, 2012
by marfmom
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Sleep Apnea Update

Yesterday Baby J and I traveled to meet his new pulmonologist. He has a sleep pulmonologist, Dr. P, but he also needs a regular pulmonologist. We’ll call her Dr. Friendly.

We waited over an hour to see Dr. Friendly but she was worth the wait! She really took her time with us, going into depth on multiple lung issues. We learned that RSV can cause lung issues for quite awhile after the infection is cleared up and is also linked to asthma, so we’ll be seeing Dr. Friendly every few months for awhile. Thanks to some other Marfan Moms on Facebook, I’ve learned to ask about the RSV shot (given monthly to at-risk children, November through April: RSV season). The doctor told us there is no point in trying to get it approved for Baby J this close to the end of the season, but we’ll start the paperwork in early fall for him to get the shots come November.

Dr. Friendly looked over J’s chest x-ray from the hospital and agreed that his eventration needs to be examined. Luckily, he isn’t experiencing respiratory symptoms from it (chronic cough, wheezing) so it most likely isn’t impeding lung function at this time. We have an ultrasound scheduled for Monday to see how his diaphragm is affected.

While discussing the fact that Baby J still has a runny nose eve a couple weeks past being in the hospital, I mentioned that I frequently get colds that settle in my lungs for weeks and went through a period of getting bronchitis every winter…once it lasted 3 months. I had just chalked it up to Marfan. Turns out that weeks of a cough that won’t go away and frequent feelings of being out of breath (which I have) are indicators of asthma. Dr. Friendly suggested I get some asthma and general pulmonary functions tests done sooner rather than later. How cool is that?! My son’s doctor took the time to point out something that might be a problem for me and explain it, even though she’s not my doctor!

But wait: the best is yet to come! We got the unofficial results of J’s Valentines’ Day sleep study…unofficial because they came from the nurse (we see Dr. P in a couple of weeks & she’ll go over them then).

Are you ready for this?

J’s sleep apnea is GONE.

His destats are also GONE.

His oxygen never got lower than a 94. He didn’t stop breathing at all. No more CPAP. No more oxygen tank.

WHOO-HOOOOO!!!!!!!!!

Now, we’re supposed to stay using the oxygen till we get the official word from Dr. P, but in a couple weeks we should be free of all the machines.

Let this be a lesson to you other moms. When J was diagnosed, you might recall that the attending pulmonologist put a lot of pressure (ok, borderline harassed) me to submit J to two scopes and surgery to “treat” his sleep apnea. The doctors refused to believe me when I said his sleep apnea was due to Marfan syndrome and he’d outgrow it. There were times I wavered a bit, but I kept coming back to my “mommy gut” and my mommy gut told me not to do the surgery. It’s been 7 or 8 months since then and it turns out I was right. TRUST YOUR MOMMY GUT. God gave you that for a reason. Doctors know medicine, but no one knows your child like you.

February 21, 2012
by marfmom
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The Menininho’s 3rd Birthday Party

This past Saturday we celebrated M’s third birthday with our family. My mom has come in from Wisconsin for 10 days and my brother and his new fiancee, Taylor, drove in from Chicago for the party. The Menininho requested a rainbow party and I had a lot of fun scouring Pinterest for ideas.

I made glitter playdoh for the goodie bags, which I sadly neglected to take a picture of. The recipe came from here though. I halved the recipe for each color and got 4 adult fist-sized balls from each color. It was too much playdoh to fit in the goodie bags so I had to give each child 2 ziplock bags worth of playdoh in addition to their goodie bag. Next time I’d just do 1/4 of the recipe per color for a party this small (just 4 kids).

We tried to hit all the colors of the rainbow with the lunch we served. Pulled pork sandwiches were the main course.
food for rainbow party

For a game, the kids played pin the cloud on the rainbow. M’s cousins are 3 and 5, so this was a very quick and easy activity for them to do in between lunch and cake.
pin the cloud on the rainbow

I’m most proud of the birthday cake. (I got the idea here.) I found a dairy free white cake recipe online and separated the batter into six bowls. I used gel food coloring to dye them and then used a spoon to splatter batter all over the pan. I alternated colors, doing half of a bowl at a time. There was very little issue with the colors running, as you can see below. For the frosting I used Pillsbury funfetti icing, which is surprisingly dairy free. And for those who are curious, the cake was slightly more dense than a box mix cake, but otherwise tasted the same. I substituted coconut milk for the almond milk the recipe calls for and you couldn’t really taste it.
rainbow cake

I think that M had a good time, though I could tell the party was difficult for him. He did really well through lunch, started to meltdown around the game but rallied for cake. I tried to rush through opening presents (he kept covering his ears because of the noise) and he completely melted down just after he opened the last one. M was definitely excited for the party but I think he got a little too worked up ahead of time, as evidenced by him spending a good hour running around that morning saying “I going to the shoe store to buy the missing shoes. Bye Mommy!” over and over and over. So, by the time the party rolled around he was already a little worn out and then we had almost 20 people over. I think next year we’ll keep it to just family again, or if he has some friends from school do a separate party with them, but combining family and friends is going to be too much at this point.

All in all though, I’m glad we did a big party for M this year and that he did so well with it. It was great seeing him so excited 🙂

February 16, 2012
by marfmom
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Friday Favorites

It’s Friday, so you know what that means!

Come on over and link up the favorite post that you wrote this week. I promise I’ll come over and comment on each of your posts. I hope that you’ll spread the love and visit the blog or two above yours too. I’ll leave the linky up through Sunday night.